這八個跡象證明:你性格已經強勢到嚇人了

2024年2月9日發(作者：駐村干部工作總結)

這八個跡象證明：你性格已經強勢到嚇人了

英文學以致用，領略語言之美。有道詞典，不只是查單詞，還帶你看天下。

When people encounter someone with a strong personality,

they don’t understand the kind of person they are dealing with.

當人們遇到性格強勢的人時，他們不了解對方到底是什么樣的。

Some people think you dominate. Some just think you are

rude. But none of the are the truth. The words actually do

not reflect your personality at all. In fact, strong people are often

kittens on the inside. It’s just that people with domineering

personalities just give you a bad rep.

有些人認為你盛氣凌人，有些人認為你就是粗魯。但這些都不是事實。這些詞語根本不能描述你真正的性格。實際上，強勢的人往往在內心就是只小貓，讓你名聲壞的正是那些真正盛氣凌人的人。

Strong people do not have to win, they just are not willing to

let other people walk all over them on the outside.

強勢的人并不是一定要贏，他們只是不愿意讓人任意欺負。

Here are eight signs that you have a strong personality that

might scare some people.

這里有8個跡象顯示你也許有著強勢到嚇人的性格。

You Don’t Put Up With Excus

你不能忍受借口

Strong personalities do not put up with excus. When you

have a strong personality, you’re not willing to listen to people

waste time whining about what they can do. You would rather

focus on what you can do and how you can overcome obstacles

to do more.

強勢的人不能忍受借口。如果你性格強勢，你就不愿意浪費時間

聽別人叨叨他們能做什么。你寧愿專注于你所能做的事上，以及怎樣克服障礙做更多的事。

Don’t question yourlf for not making excus. There

might be a lot of reasons that you can’t do something but there

are more reasons that you can.

別因為你不愿找借口而懷疑自己。也許有很多你不能做某事的理由，但是你能做某事的理由會更多。

You Are Careful About Who You Let Into Your Life

你在讓誰走進你的生活這一點上非常小心

As a strong person, you do not rely on other people to tell

you who you are, what you are or what you can do. You recognize

that some people need to do that to make themlves feel better.

You also recognize that some people need to hear the things

to feel whole.

作為一個強勢的人，你不會依賴別人，讓別人告訴你你是誰、你是怎樣的以及你能做什么。你知道有人會有這樣的依賴性，這樣他們會感覺更好。你也知道有些人需要聽到這些東西才能感到自己是完整的。

Even if you don’t yet know exactly who you are, you know

that you do not need a boyfriend, girlfriend, boss, best friend or

family member to tell you what you’re capable of. You can figure

that out on your own.

即使你不完全知道你到底是誰，你也不需要一個男朋友、女朋友、老板或是家庭成員來告訴你你能做什么。你自己就能找到答案。

You Hate Small Talk

你討厭閑談

Small talk is terrible. If you have a strong personality, you

have a lot of ideas. You do not want to waste time talking about

people when you could be changing the world.

閑談是很惹人厭的。如果你是個強勢的人，你會很有思想。你不

想要浪費時間去談論人，因為你有能力改變世界。

You might feel like you are bad at small talk. But that is not

true. Anyone can make small talk using free Arabic fonts. What

you’re feeling is a discomfort becau small talk wastes time

and brain cells.

你可能會覺得你不擅長閑談。但這不是事實。所有人都能不受拘束地閑談。你感到不舒服是因為閑談浪費時間和腦細胞。

You Can’t Stand Innsitivity, Idiocy or Ignorance

你不能忍受不敏感、白癡或是無知

Dominating personalities come from a lack of influence or

knowledge. Strong personalities are the result of being

thoughtful and well-informed. There is a huge difference

between the two.

盛氣凌人的性格源于缺乏一定的影響力或是知識。而強勢的性格來自體貼和博識。兩者之間差異很大。

Becau you have put time and effort into using your brain

for good, you hate it when people make instant judgements

about things they do not know anything about. This is probably

your best quality but not becau you can u your knowledge

to influence people. It is becau you can u it to encourage

people to actually think about what they say before it falls out of

their mouth.

因為你一直致力于認真思考，你會厭惡人們對自己一無所知的事物不假思索地下判斷。這也許是你最好的特質，但這并不是因為你能用你的知識去影響別人，而是因為你能用這種特質使得人們在表達自己的意見之前認真思考。

You Know How to Listen

你知道怎樣聆聽

People with strong personalities know how to listen. You

might think that people would appreciate this. But in reality,

being heard and encouraged actually terrifies people who are not

ud to it.

性格強勢的人知道怎樣聆聽。你也許認為人們會贊賞這一點。但是在現實中，被聆聽被鼓勵往往會嚇壞那些不習慣的人。

You Do Not Need Attention

你不需要別人的關注

Having this type of personality means that you do not need

attention. Most people that you encounter think that you thrive

on it but this is not the truth. It just that your personality attracts

people to you. The amount of socializing you do is not becau

you want to do it but becau people need people like you

around.

有這樣性格的的人不需要別人的關注。大多數人認為你喜歡如此，但這也不是事實。你的性格會吸引別人接近你。你社交并不是因為你喜歡社交，而是別人需要你這樣的人。

Despite this perception, you still need time to recharge.

Don’t be afraid to take it. It is just as important to take care of

yourlf as it is to take care of other people.

雖然如此，但你還是需要時間充電。別怕，照顧自己和照顧別人兩者是一樣重要的。

You Are Fearless

你是無畏的

Okay, this one is not true. There is probably one thing that

you are afraid of. But the difference between you and other

people is that you do not let this fear dictate the way you live

your life.

好吧，這一點不是真的。也許有一樣東西是你很害怕的。但你和別人的區別在于，你不會讓這種恐懼影響你的生活方式。

You Take Incurity As An Opportunity

你把無把握當做是機會

Incurity for you is an opportunity to do better. You know

you’re not perfect but if you are not trying to learn and evolve,

despite the risk of looking like a fool, then you are not living. You

are just existing.

對你來講，沒有把握就是有機會做得更好。你知道你不是完美的，但是如果你不去學不去發展，就怕看起來像個笨蛋，那么你不是在生活，只是在生存。

They say everyone is incure and this is probably true. But

not everyone has to stop this incurity from letting them live

their life and own the things that they are incure about.

人們說每個人都沒有把握，這也許是真的。但不是每個人都會阻止這種不確定性妨礙他們過自己的生活，得到那些他們沒把握得到的東西。

Sure, some people think that people with big personalities

are difficult to be around. But you’re only difficult to be around

becau you challenge other people to be the best version of

themlves! If this is what being difficult is like then you already

know that it is best to just keep being you.

當然有些人認為性格強勢的人很難相處。但是你難相處的唯一原因在于你迫使別人變成最好的自己！如果這就是難相處，那你已經知道繼續做自己就是最好的了。